So I'm sure this has been posted many times over since people who are new to the process like us are like deers in the headlights.
Me and my wife have been together for 10 years and have always considered poly life but never felt it was the time or financially didn't feel comfortable bringing someone in. However, we have now officially decided it was time and are both looking forward to it. The problem we are having is two things. One, how to start? We made a dating profile that is ment to be specific to like minded women. But we are not sure other ways to look for someone. Second, we don't know anyone with our lifestyle and worry that our family or community will look negatively on our lifestyle. Does anyone have any advice on these two issues?